Wham..bam..thank you maam!

Cute ass guy from my fave weekend drinking haunt asked me out today...yes i am objectifying him and we have been making eyes for quite a while now..just one problem, i know what he wants and i am unwilling to give that to him...but how many people live by this policy of wham, bam, thank you maam?
Here's something that i find amusing..men spend nine months inside a woman and cant wait to get out, and then they spend the rest of their lives trying to get in.
I understand that they are predesigned to sow their oats...but how much sowing can u indulge in..i mean leave it fallow for some time dude..don't go overboard. Isn't it tiring & irksome to go bed hopping all the time? And its not like only men do it, women are equally aparty to it.
Don't get me wrong...im all for free loving (if u're into that kindda thing) though im not. Call me old fashioned if u please, but sex isn't just about the sex.
There've been so many times when i've been in situations with men that could've only ended in the bedroom, or wherever the hell else..but some good judgement held me back.
No im not a nice gal, far from it. Just that the concept of a frivolous no strings attached one nighter...although sounds damn appealing...never really did it for me. Yes it gets you all hot and worked up...the very act of being carefree and throwing caution to the wind. But if the sex is good, why leave it at just that one time.. and if its bad, u'd regret it forever.
Hell i just hate being so damn practical all the time, but someone's gotta do it. I cant give it up to just anyone and be another dent on some man's bedpost. The reason why i think this way is coz i've seen far too many friends in their morning after stance, all guilty and self deprivating. It's not a pretty sight and i dont want to be one of them. So for me there's only wham and bam...no thank you maam's, simply coz there is no time, i always want seconds ;)