Where have all the good men vanished? I hate that question...whatdya mean where've they vanished? Do my girlfriends know that my male friends are asking the same question? Its just a matter of looking at the right places. Now if you expect to find love from a one-night stand (no, im not judging. that does happen) or from speed dating (again, nay sayers, plz hang on) then that is your prerogative. In my experience, more often than not, its a person you've known for ages, or a cousin of a friend or sometimes even that random acquaintance you met on a social networking site.
Oops im straying from the real intention of this post, while women are complaining about a dearth of eligible men out there, im stuck in a curious situation...don't hate me for sounding presumptuous here (oh what the hell, see if i care, go right ahead) but three men who matter a great deal in my life have all of a sudden decided they have less than platonic feelings for me. Yes, three is a crowd! My life is getting a male overload here. An 18 year old media contact who became a close pal, a fellow classmate i've known since preschool, and a 28 year old potential soulmate but no sexual chemistry prospect. All of them, like a jolt of lightning, spread over the past 2 weeks have made it quite clear that they don't wanna be 'just friends' anymore.
The three of 'em are as different as chalk, cheese and umm...potato? Hehe, for lack of a better word. And what a vast age gap, the young one would qualify as me rocking the cradle and the oldest as a sugar daddy! I adore them all in very distinct ways but what the hell is going on? Do i have a signpost around my neck saying 'open for business'? This is not a great, oh i am so flattered, what an ego boost situation people. It feels horrible to dodge advances from men who you care for...
(To be continued)
14 comments:
Go for the Potato....carbohydrates are always good, you can boil it, steam it, bake it and when there's nothing else that works, the potato does wonders. :D
potential soulmate but no chemistry .. i dont understand ? nonetheless there are right men in this world .. still !! and they aint gay either !
@ clitty
potato's are nothing but useless calories and i don't like them love handles...
@inexile
no sexual chemistry baby, here i'll incorporate that part for u ;)
woooooooohoooo.
(puts on cowboy hat, stretches legs on the table and watches -- knows a line when she sees one)
heh heh.
oh man! the eene-meene-mina-who thing...cool...
not cool at all, it only sounds interesting, in reality..far from it jerry
remember the scene in love actualy where the son,with the all important THE finger tells liam neeson ?
'dad, she's the one...'
now it seems funny... ;-)
ani
whose this jhoomur person now ? :P
and how do you even say this name ?? zoo-murr ? :P
inexile: you worry me dude. at good convincing moments, you sound like a fuckin 'desi' and then at the other, dude, you don't at all.
@jerry, and also .. i am a lesbian too ! ;)
every man i suppose would like to be one...hehe!
man lesbian? chalk cheese and potato? eenee meenee miniii mooo? bongshell goes cowboy?
hmmmmmmmmmmmmm
@ inexile n jerry
why do u guys always choose my posts to talk bout the most inane, nonsensical things? boo hoo!
@ kirit
stick around dude, it gets stranger still...
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